When Your Dreams Die, It’s Time For a Resurrection!

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Each of us have had dreams that have died.

In the aftermath, you’ve probably wondered, “Where is God? And can He resurrect this mess?” You’re not alone! Every believer I know has faced a crisis that has rocked their faith at one time or another.

Mary Magdalene must have wondered where God was as she stood outside the tomb weeping (John 20:1-2, 11-17). Imagine her crushed heart! Jesus had been crucified, and now His body was missing! She had witnessed many miracles of Jesus and had even experienced her own. Jesus had delivered her from demonic activity and set her free. But the last few days had felt devastating. Every hope and dream of Jesus ushering in a new kingdom

As she leaned in to the tomb, two men dressed in white spoke and asked her why she was crying. Trying to stifle her sobs, Mary responded, “They have taken away my Lord and I don’t know where they had laid him.” Seconds after the words were out of her mouth, Mary felt someone standing behind her. Blinded by her own grief, she didn’t recognize that it was Jesus. It wasn’t until Jesus spoke Mary’s name that Mary realized Jesus hadn’t abandoned her. He had kept His promise!

When your dreams die, here are five truths to help you remember that God is in the business of resurrections:


  1. Jesus weeps with you. We don’t see Jesus weeping at the empty tomb where Mary cried, but we do see Him weeping at another tomb. Remember the story of Lazarus? Even though Jesus knew He was going to raise Lazarus from the grave, He stood there with tears streaming down His Almighty face weeping with Mary and Martha (John 11:35). When life is falling apart, remember: Jesus empathizes and weeps with you.
  2. Jesus knows your name. God may seem aloof when your dreams die, but He has not abandoned you. He calls you by name. He invites you to open your eyes and see Him in His risen form ready and able to help you.
  3. Jesus values community. After Mary saw the risen Christ, He told her to go tell and be with the other disciples. Jesus invites us to community whether we’re grieving or celebrating. The next time one of your dreams dies and you feel devastated, lean into your community. Ask them to pray for you and to walk the journey of grief with you.
  4. Jesus brings beauty from the ashes. When your dreams die, it’s hard to believe that God can bring something good out of the bad. And yet that’s the message of the resurrection! Through His death and resurrection, Jesus takes the evil in our lives—the seemingly bad—and transforms it into something beautiful. He replaces old desires with new and vibrant dreams.
  5. Jesus keeps His promises. Just as He kept His promise to Mary that He would rise after His death, He will keep the promises He’s made to you. Promises like:
  • He will keep your mind at peace as you focus on Him (Isaiah 26:3).
  • He’ll never leave for forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
  • Nothing can separate you from His love (Romans 8: 37-39).
  • He promises to supply all your needs (Philippians 4:19).


Friend, as you face disappointments and devastation, remember, every dream that dies opens the way for a resurrection. Jesus is in the business of resurrections!

Here’s a question for you to consider: how have broken dreams in the past paved the way for a resurrection of new dreams in your life?

Leave a promise from scripture that has been particularly helpful to you when you’ve faced a crisis. Your promise will encourage others. Please leave a comment at www.beckyharling.com/blog.

Where’s Becky?

 Monday, March 12, I’ll be on Susie Larson’s Radio Program, Live The Promise. (5:00 pm ET, 4:00 pm CT, 3:00 MT, 2:00 PT)

Tuesday, March 13, I’ll be speaking at Denver Seminary’s Women Engage.

How You Can Pray

Praise God with me for good meetings in Florida and for good ministry at Bold City Church.

Please pray that God will speak through me at Denver Seminary.






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  1. Marie Baca
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    Psalm 71:20 Though you have made me see troubles, many and bitter, you will restore my life again; from the depths of the earth you will again bring me up.
    During a very devastating time in my life when all was painful and my dreams had died, I wrote this scripture on an index card to post in my office. I read it daily. I waited for God to fulfill his promise of restoring my life and bring me up again. God is faithful, He did restore my life! When I face “dead dreams” today, I trust that God will continuously restore and bring me up again!

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